I now realize by the comments you’re serious. And you, my fellow writer, take from me the gold for most authentically raw writer on Medium. No judgement as I have my own wrongs, but I can only say I’ve been cheated on, not cheated. So I can’t match the cards you’ve dropped on the table (not that it’s really a competition and I’d rather us both do better by learning from our mistakes if we’re being honest). But if it were a competition in this regard, you won by default.